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  • Beginning to feel like a victim all over again!

    Excuse the melt down, but I think only people in this forum would understand what I am going through. 26 months of waiting. I know there are others who have been waiting longer and I am not taking that lightly. Consistently checking status hoping to see some change, writing the Vermont Service Center and never getting a response, can't get any information by phone, checking the mail and seeing nothing. Sometimes I feel like I am going to have anxiety. You are strong enough to overcome the scars and try to think to yourself that at least something good will come out of it, but what a painful process. I just feel stuck and like nobody cares.

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    Originally posted by Tamz2014 View Post
    Excuse the melt down, but I think only people in this forum would understand what I am going through. 26 months of waiting. I know there are others who have been waiting longer and I am not taking that lightly. Consistently checking status hoping to see some change, writing the Vermont Service Center and never getting a response, can't get any information by phone, checking the mail and seeing nothing. Sometimes I feel like I am going to have anxiety. You are strong enough to overcome the scars and try to think to yourself that at least something good will come out of it, but what a painful process. I just feel stuck and like nobody cares.
    We all feel the same. Just hoping next year February they will work together and faster. How stupid we are?we all living in a dream. We are victims that is why we applied for u visa. They are making us victims again.

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    • #3
      Going 23months in my process,ive gone through many series of anxiety and depression,i feel abused all again,this is inhuman, especially for single parents,without support.What breaks my heart is that each time i get close to what they claim is the wait period for DA,i hear the wait time extended to 4 more months,i feel your pain,and feel hope drifting away,sometimes i have to wonder,because they know so many people are waiting and they never have any information to give,sometimes,i wonder,if u cases are spare time cases,Da should not take this long,the actual visa i understand,but this process breaks you,over and over.
      Last edited by Shelly; 12-30-2016, 11:42 PM.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Shelly View Post
        Going 23months in my process,ive gone through many series of anxiety and depression,i feel abused all again,this is inhuman, especially for single parents,without support.What breaks my heart is that each time i get close to what they claim is the wait period for DA,i hear the wait time extended to 4 more months,i feel your pain,and feel hope drifting away,sometimes i have to wonder,because they know so many people are waiting and they never have any information to give,sometimes,i wonder,if u cases are spare time cases,Da should not take this long,the actual visa i understand,but this process breaks you,over and over.
        Shelly I am in same situation like in yours.
        Starting 29th month from tomorrow. Waiting!
        American efficiency classic example of abuse.

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        • #5
          Genuine victims are being victimized all over again and fake victims are being given all the benefits. Frustrating .
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          • #6
            Just asking

            Originally posted by Prince View Post
            Genuine victims are being victimized all over again and fake victims are being given all the benefits. Frustrating .
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            Do you know any fake applicants? Bcz I am wondering how someone can have police report and all kinds of stuffs fake? This is so unfair. I hope new administration will push them to work faster.

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            • #7
              It's look like nothing is moving when it's comes to U visa everything else is going good on their website hope new administration will do something.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by Nipuriya View Post
                Do you know any fake applicants? Bcz I am wondering how someone can have police report and all kinds of stuffs fake? This is so unfair. I hope new administration will push them to work faster.
                https://www.justice.gov/usao-sdms/pr...igration-fraud

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                • #9
                  Oh ... My... God.
                  ****ty files false files causing delays. Bullcrap.

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                  • #10
                    Well real will be always real and fake is fake. You are gonna get caught one day. But it shouldn't be the reason to make them delay.

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                    • #11
                      totally understand the frusteration!!
                      imagin getting deported to a country youve never visited and havin to wait more than three years for a response ??
                      exactly!!!

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by Tamz2014 View Post
                        Excuse the melt down, but I think only people in this forum would understand what I am going through. 26 months of waiting. I know there are others who have been waiting longer and I am not taking that lightly. Consistently checking status hoping to see some change, writing the Vermont Service Center and never getting a response, can't get any information by phone, checking the mail and seeing nothing. Sometimes I feel like I am going to have anxiety. You are strong enough to overcome the scars and try to think to yourself that at least something good will come out of it, but what a painful process. I just feel stuck and like nobody cares.
                        My husband applied on June 3rd 2014. On December 1st, immigration send us a request for evidence. We need to submit another certification by law enforcement or the district attorney. We have time until Feb 27 to submit the form. The detective who initially signed the form is not there anymore. Our attorney sent the paper work to the district attorney. The court house takes forever to sign this form. Immigration does not extend the period of time. So, our family future is in the hands of the people that we helped to prosecute the criminal, but this people now doesn't care about the victims after they obtained our help. The criminal will be released from jail on November of this year, and our current address was made public by the court house online. Talking about frustration here too.
                        We do no have the means to move. We desperately need a work permit to get out of this f#//ing hole. If I'd known, my family would have moved back to my country. Now we are stuck.

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                        • #13
                          I breaks my heart reading all your post. This is completely out of control. They are sending RFE after over 2 years of waiting. To me that's an indication that they barely looked at the case in 2 years. Whatever information they needed should have been requested earlier. It is inhumane to be sitting on a case for that long and then request information to delay the case even more. I have really been thinking how can we fight this.. It may not change our situation, but at least future applicants may have a better chance. I am thinking of repeatedly sending all my State Representatives and Senators in DC letters with pictures of my wounds and not stop until I get a response. This is ridiculous and painful. They need to really fix this entire process.

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                          • #14
                            totally agree with you tamz2014

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                            • #15
                              I feel the same, they take forever checking our cases, we are victims and we have to wait all this time . It's true, for more that you call, sent letters check with your lawyer you hear the same answer, you have to wait. My son and I here waiting for the opportunity for U visa and my ex-husband, just get his residence, wtf. How thinks like this can happen.

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